Net Worth Week 46 – She’s Gone Edition

Gentle Readers,
I took my girlfriend to the airport this morning and called in “sick” to work. I believe mental health counts for a sick day, and that it is a stupid system that tells me I can only use the time-off I’ve earned in one particular way.
My best friend is meeting me after work. I am meeting my other best friend’s new puppy this weekend. I’ve got some client work to do and also am not trying to get any OT this week, in part because the holiday pay calculation means that I would have to physically work 40 hours plus 1 in order to get the time-and-a-half pay-rate. Not today, Satan.
 Time to do the errands I’ve been putting off while focusing on her move: trip to the tailor,  oral surgeon,  preparing taxes so that I can understand how to do my schedule c/k? properly, grocery store, skill-building.
My net worth took a slight dip this week, which is attributable to my getting a hotel for her last night in our city. Absolutely worth it.

This week’s net worth numbers

2/17/2017 2/24/2017
 Joy 1104 1104
 Travel 324 324
 Down Payment 19 19
 Retirement 21 21
 Health 45 45
 Moving 284 284
 EF 810 810
Business 751 751
Bed  0.19 0.19
 Life 1608  1622
 IRA 11974  12163
 Brokerage 688  693
 CC (largest) -4203 -4215
 CC (longest) 0  0
 Rewards Card -1682 -1909
SL 1 -103970 -104085
 SL 2 -45738 -45844
 Earnest -6122 -6133
 Net Worth -144139 -144323
 Percentage Change .33% -.13%

What should I do for self-care?

Have a poem by a black, queer poet of the Harlem Renaissance. Happy Black History Month, y’all!

“I loved my friend
He went away from me
There’s nothing more to say
The poem ends,
Soft as it began-
I loved my friend.”
Langston Hughes  

Net Worth Week 45 – A Change is Gonna Come

Gentle Readers,
There was another week of net worth growth, but big changes are brewing. These changes will impact my money, my time, and my general happiness.
My wonderful girlfriend had a short period of unemployment before accepting a job very far away. It’s an exciting opportunity and will be a great chance to grow professionally, but it is also bittersweet. A change of scenery may be good for the spirit, but it also means that our hug quotient will go way down. She flies away next week.
Thankfully, my employment is flexible. I have not yet broached it with my agency, but I will request that they allow me to work remotely outside of the weekend to sometimes work from her new place while she is at her job. This will make visiting her monthly far more feasible. I have the approved computer for remote work. My bosses don’t supervise us, nor care that one person sleeps while “working.” This would allow me to continue pursuing their overtime goals and allow me to purchase cheaper airfare. They should say yes, but may balk. We’ll see.
With all of this, I also need to continue to work on my balance transfer from last summer, and pay it off before July.  Her move is why I have not yet made my appointment with an oral surgeon. I want to spend as much time with her and helping her as possible. Sometimes love includes dental pain.
I have a lot to learn to make this change work. I did not previously know that South West Airlines had such flexible tickets. I will be looking up travel hacking, and all sorts of other things to make sure that our love and support stay strong.
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This week’s net worth numbers

2/10/2017 2/17/2017
 Joy 1104 1104
 Travel 324 324
 Down Payment 19 19
 Retirement 21 21
 Health 45 45
 Moving 284 284
 EF 810 810
Business 751 751
Bed  0.19 0.19
 Life 819  1608
 IRA 11536  11974
 Brokerage 679  688
 CC (largest) -4182 -4203
 CC (longest) 0  0
 Rewards Card -1120 -1682
SL 1 -103854 -103970
 SL 2 -45738 -45791
 Earnest -6109 -6122
 Net Worth -144610 -144139
 Percentage Change .40% .33%

What made a long-distance relationship work for you?  

Net Worth Week 41 – Washington Changes Edition

This change is hard. The new man openly talks about assaulting women. It’s a lot to take in. But I must keep trying to be the change I wish to see in the world. I can do that best from a place of financial wellness. This is my eighth week in a row of net worth increase. It’s a good start.
1/13/17 1/20/17
Joy 1103 1103
Travel 324 324
Down Payment 19 19
Retirement 21 21
Health 45 45
Moving 284 284
EF 310 310
Business 501 501
Bed 0.29 0.29
Life 1128  1716
IRA 11075 11020
Brokerage 666  663
CC (largest) -4210 -4265
CC (longest) 0 0
Rewards Card -999 -1365
SL 1 -103652 -103767
SL 2 -45646 -45698
Earnest -6519 -6532
Net Worth -145550 -145120  
Percentage Change .22% .29%

How are you handling the changes? I’ll be volunteering this weekend.

Net Worth Week 40 – Birthday Edition

This is now a 7 week streak of my net worth improving!
12/30/16 1/6/17 1/13/17
Joy 1102 1103 1103
Travel 324 324 324
Down Payment 19 19 19
Retirement 21 21 21
Health 45 45 45
Moving 284 284 284
EF 309 310 310
Business 501 501 501
Bed 0.29 0.29 0.29
Life 1889 1422  1128
IRA 10879 11055  11075
Brokerage 658 669  666
CC (largest) -4251 -4210  -4210
CC (longest) 0 0 0
Rewards Card -1534 -1406  -999
SL 1 -103680 -103795  -103652
SL 2 -45659 -45711  -45646
Earnest -6956 -6507  -6519
Net Worth -146049 -145876  -145550
Percentage Change .13% .12% .22%

How do you like to celebrate your birthday?

Net Worth Week 39

12/23/16 12/30/16 1/6/17
Joy 1102 1102 1103
Travel 324 324 324
Down Payment 19 19 19
Retirement 21 21 21
Health 45 45 45
Moving 284 284 284
EF 309 309 310
Business 1 501 501
Bed 0.29 0.29 0.29
Life 1912 1889  1422
IRA 10718 10879  11055
Brokerage 661 658  669
CC (largest) -4256 -4251  -4210
CC (longest) 0 0 0
Rewards Card -1274 -1534  -1406
SL 1 -103565 -103680  -103795
SL 2 -45606 -45659  -45711
Earnest -6942 -6956  -6507
Net Worth -146246 -146o49  -145876
Percentage Change .16% .13% .12%

Have you ever fired a client over ethics?

Net Worth Week 38 – The Year End Edition

I once again travel today, but this time to New England to begin the year with some of my favorite people. I love starting the year with them, but have not done it for a few years. Extra bonus, my girlfriend loves every time I visit this region because I come home so happy. Everybody wins.

My business had a major milestone. I paid myself out of the profits for the first time. It is a small amount, and does not begin to repay me the loan of my money and time over these years, but it is an incredible start. I’m quite happy to start small, because this gives me a chance to feel what paying self-employment taxes are like on a limited-scale. If I mess up, the error should be smaller, right? My current plan is to pay myself from the profits, but not spend the money. Just have it set aside into my “business” account. Once I get the hang of paying quarterly taxes, I can save it/invest it/use it like regular money.

Thirty-eight weeks of tracking my net worth and I’m doing slightly better than I was when I began. I had hoped to be in a much better position at the end of the year, but I had not anticipated the thousands of dollars in medical bills. I still know that I am doing better, but it is important to remember that life can come at you sideways.

12/16/16 12/23/16 12/30/16
Joy 1102 1102 1102
Travel 324 324 324
Down Payment 19 19 19
Retirement 21 21 21
Health 45 45 45
Moving 284 284 284
EF 309 309 309
Business 1 1 501
Bed 0.29 0.29 0.29
Life 636 1912  1889
IRA 10883 10718  10879
Brokerage 661 661  658
CC (largest) -4341 -4256  -4251
CC (longest) 0 0 0
Rewards Card -510 -1274  -1534
SL 1 -103449 -103565  -103680
SL 2 -45553 -45606  -45659
Earnest -6927 -6942  -6956
Net Worth -146494 -146246  -146049
Percentage Change .26% .16% .13%

Are you ready for a New Year?

Net Worth Week 36 – Blustery Edition

12/2/16 12/9/16 12/16/16
Joy 1102 1102 1102
Travel 324 324 324
Down Payment 19 19 19
Retirement 21 21 21
Health 45 45 45
Moving 284 284 284
EF 309 309 309
Business 1 1 1
Bed 0.29 0.29 0.29
Life 2617 445  636
IRA 10124 10988  10883
Brokerage 399 664  661
CC (largest) -4341 -4341  -4341
CC (longest) -98 0 0
Rewards Card -1683 -988  -510
SL 1 -103477 -103334  -103449
SL 2 -45566 -45501  -45553
Earnest -7364 -6915  -6927
Net Worth -147283 -146880  -146494
Percentage Change .29% .27% .26%

How are you staying warm if winter has come to your neck of the woods?

Net Worth Week 34 – Overtime Edition

11/18/16 11/25/16 12/2/16
Joy 1102 1102 1102
Travel 324 324 324
Down Payment 19 19 19
Retirement 21 21 21
Health 45 45 45
Moving 284 284 284
EF 309 309 309
Business 1 1 1
Bed 0.29 0.29 0.29
Life 2288 1632  2617
IRA 10004 10170  10124
Brokerage 400 406  399
CC (largest) -4370 -4332  -4341
CC (longest) 0 0 -98
Rewards Card -454 -1443  -1683
SL 1 -103247 -103378  -103477
SL 2 -45461 -45521  -45566
Earnest -7335 -7351  -7364
Net Worth -146069 -147712  -147283
Percentage Change .15% -1.12% .29%

How are your Decembers starting?

Net Worth Week 31 – Sick and Tired

10/28/16 11/4/16 11/11/16
Joy 1101 1102 1102
Travel 323 324 324
Down Payment 19 19 19
Retirement 21 21 21
Health 45 45 45
Moving 284 284 284
EF 105 105 309
Business 1 1 1
Bed 0.29 0.29 0.29
Life 2145 2256  1475
IRA 9917 9773  9954
Brokerage 391 377  396
CC (largest) -4499 -4479  -4390
CC (longest) 0 0 0
Rewards Card -647 -199  0
SL 1 -103159 -103275  -103115
SL 2 -45421 -45474  -45401
Earnest -7752 -7768  -7318
Net Worth -147122 -146887  -146293
Percentage Change -.76% .15% .40%

Have you encouraged someone who is despairing?

Net Worth Week 30 – Don’t Sleep on the Job

10/21/16 10/28/16 11/4/16
Joy 1101 1101 1102
Travel 323 323 324
Down Payment 19 19 19
Retirement 21 21 21
Health 45 45 45
Moving 284 284 284
EF 1005 105 105
Business 1 1 1
Bed 0.29 0.29 0.29
Life 1942 2145  2256
IRA 10011 9917  9773
Brokerage 399 391  377
CC (largest) -4559 -4499  -4479
CC (longest) -62 0 0
Rewards Card -383 -647  -199
SL 1 -103044 -103159  -103275
SL 2 -45368 -45421  -45474
Earnest -7736 -7752  -7768
Net Worth -146000 -147122  -146887
Percentage Change .31% -.76% .15%

Have you picked out your Election Day outfit?