Net Worth Week 86 – Biding Time Edition

Gentle Readers,
I’m still in the hurry up and wait phase of estate management and pursuit of a gig. My second-phase interview was rescheduled for Monday instead of yesterday. These interviews in my employment world are largely ceremonial. Once they approve me, they’ll need to formally request me and send me to get an ID. Since this is a government gig through a temp agency and a subcontractor, it takes time to onboard. Last time, it took a month from first contact to working. Thankfully I had a gig during that time to hold me over then. My first contact regarding this gig was November 6th; Monday would be 4 weeks since then.  In the meantime, I am studying like a mad woman to make myself available for other types of gigs.
I’ve also used this time to do some administrative work for my own office and bedroom. Handling tasks that take time but little brainpower. I’ve kept my brainpower for my heart and reading novels. This was a wise choice.
My friends have been really wonderful. Lots of phone calls and time in person. People are wrapping me up in love and it’s great. Even so, it feels like November has been the longest month. So much has changed. So much has happened. Hopefully working again will make time feel a bit more normal soon.
 I have my first Rover gig tonight and I am excited. Especially since I did not originally realize that I get paid per animal. I’m earning double what I thought this weekend. The dogs are high energy, and that is fine with me. I get a chance to stay away from my roommates and play with animals while earning money. Wins all around. Hopefully this client and I get along enough to make this an ongoing gig.

This week’s net worth numbers

11/24/2017 12/1/2017
 Joy 1110 1111
 Travel 1  1
 Down Payment 19 19
 Retirement 21 21
 Moving 286 286
 EF 57 57
 Business 5 5
Life 2471 2454
IRA 15966  16098
 Brokerage  858  858
 Rewards Card 2 -1587  -1966
 CC (largest  0  0
 CC (longest 0  0
 Rewards Card -5613 (BT)  -5613 (BT)
 SL 1 -105899  -106014
SL 2 -46672 -46724
Earnest -2279 -2284
 Repay brother  -600? -600?
 Net Worth -141855 -142291
 Percentage Change -1.16.% -.31%

Have you used Rover before?

Net Worth Week 76 – Grief Approaches Edition

Gentle Readers,
I went to the baby-shower, and was a good family-member. I  showed up, but then I got the call no one wants. A family member has a terminal illness. The outlook is dim. It is possible he could be the outlier who lives, but the odds are not high. Very not high.
This week has been heavy and so draining. It will get worse.
Next week, I will receive my first set of invisalign and begin adjusting my teeth, and I will try to get everything I can done for my business and my job in anticipation of my flight to visit my family member for potentially the last time.
Thankfully, I work by the hour in my gig. I told them I won’t be there and I don’t have to think about them when I am gone. I do have to think about ensuring I earn enough money. But that is a problem for future ZJ. Right now, I need to be near him.
This week I’ve turned to my friends, without betraying his desire for privacy. I ate in their homes and read bedtime stories to their kids. I told them of my pain and they listened. They show up for me. They provided food and a willing ear.

This week’s net worth numbers

9/15/2017 9/22/2017
 Joy 1109 1109
 Travel 1  1
 Down Payment 19 19
 Retirement 21 21
 Health 46 46
 Moving 286 286
 EF 11 11
Business 5 5
Life 4107  4548
 IRA  13882  14213
 Brokerage 823  837
 Rewards Card 2 -6345 0
 CC (largest) 0  0
 CC (longest) 0  0
 Rewards Card 0  -6270 (BT)
SL 1 -105619 -105734
SL 2 -46544 -46596
 Earnest -3154 -3160
 Net Worth -141352 -140664
 Percentage Change -1.14% .49%

How have you handled anticipated grief?