Net Worth Week 83 – Find Support Edition

Gentle Readers,
My heart is still hurting, but  I must just wait for her. I know that it will likely be many months. My twitter shows how swiftly my feelings and hopes and fears can change about this. However, I am following our boundaries as stated. No matter how I feel at a given moment. I’m really proud of myself.
This post is so late because I had a slumber-party with my friend and her family. It was soul-refreshing. The kids were sad I had to leave, but I can’t sleep on their couch forever. We played. We ate delicious food. We talked. She and I made plans to make plans for a trip. It was lovely. Rejuvenated me.
 I attended a conference about my business this week, and had my gig likely canceled. It is only likely until someone with the authority to fire me is actually at work. The two people authorized to make the decision were out on vacation when my supervisor said that the project is likely over. Thankfully, the conference was very informative and introduced me to people of like mind.
I’ve not further looked into Talk Space yet. I’m not sure that I need it, or that I can afford it since I don’t know if I will be employed come Monday.
This next week should see the biopsy results for my brother. Then we’ll know what steps he’ll need to take. His wife’s c-section is also planned.  I’m really hoping that it goes well and that the baby is healthy.
Per my girlfriend’s request, I’ll have my physical this week and see if any tests would be necessary for me.
For the second week, my dad could not begin chemotherapy because he has not been able to consume enough. It has been four weeks since he has been able to receive any treatment. I fear that means he has only weeks to live.

This week’s net worth numbers

11/3/2017 11/10/2017
 Joy 1110 1110
 Travel 1  1
 Down Payment 19 19
 Retirement 21 21
 Health 46 46
 Moving 286 286
 EF 11 11
Business 5 5
Life 3159  2047
 IRA  15851  15798
 Brokerage 864  863
 Rewards Card 2  -630  -612
 CC (largest) 0  0
 CC (longest) 0  0
 Rewards Card -5979 (BT)  -5764 (BT)
SL 1 -105989 -105668
SL 2 -46713 -46566
 Earnest -2730 -2270
 Net Worth -140668 -140673
 Percentage Change .43% .–%

Do you think I’ll have a job for the next few weeks?

Author: ZJ Thorne

Lesbian on the path to Financial Freedom

  • Ahh ZJ, what a hard time this is for you. I’m so glad you do have friends to surround yourself with, and spend time with. Is the gig the job that we were talking about on Twitter, your main job right now? Is it important for you to line something up right now or is there another project you can shift to if this project is over?

    • Thank you. I’m very grateful for my online friends and the friends who are close enough to hug. The gig is my source of income. It is possible they will keep me on now that the project is done, but nobody is sure. My agency likes me and may find me something immediately. Or it may take a bit. It’s not yet clear that I need to apply to other gigs.

    • Thank you, friend. The gig is the main job and source of income. I will hopefully find out on Monday if they have something they can shift me to.

  • Done by Forty

    Sorry so much is going wrong right now. Hang in there.

    • Thank you. I am doing what I can.

  • I’m glad that you were able to connect with your friend and her family. I’m so sorry for everything else. I’m so glad your girlfriend made that request and you’re getting a physical. Keep us posted on the family and job fronts. Hugs.

    • Thanks, Penny. Me too! Surrounding myself in love is so often the right answer.

  • When it rains, it pours. Stay strong. It will take time, but you’ll make it through.

    • I definitely will make it through. This much is clear. <3